The National Seal number for the rear axle shaft seal on a Dana 44 is 42763. Most dealers should be able to cross-reference that if they don't carry National.
You're right, the manual says to tap the cone into place on the axle using the cup, and I imagine that could be done in a pinch, but it is a heck of a lot easier, more effective, and safer on the bearing to press it on. It is definitely a press fit and not a slip fit. My son and I had two axles to completely rebuild (including differentials), so, being a tool junkie, I used that as a justification to finally buy myself a shop press:
http://www.harborfreight.com/20-ton-sho ... 32879.html I cannot imagine doing any of that job without it, a bearing separator, and the various blocks of steel, pieces of tubing, 3/4" drive sockets, etc. that were used as accessories with the press. If we were doing just the rear axle shaft bearings, the cost of the press wouldn't have been justified (idiocrates' point), but I've used it for pressing in spring bushings, suspension bushings (different vehicle), flattening the skid plate, and even bending metal and I haven't even owned it for a year yet. [edit 8/17/11: just used it again this morning to press the pitman arm off the steering gear shaft - came off with a real bang. That sucker was on there so tight I couldn't budge it at all with a pitman arm puller or a gear puller.]
I installed my seals with a large socket (again, from the cheap HF 3/4" drive set) just like oilleaker1 did, but even then they wanted to warp and I had to do some final finessing to flatten them.
On my axle the bearing cups were a "tap fit" into the axle housing, using a light hammer and working around the cup. I put the first one in too far (see below) and had to use the other axle shaft to tap it back out. This has to be done very gently so as not to damage the bearing.
The "thick spacer" is not a spacer, it is a bearing retainer. It is there to bear against the bearing cup only, so that the brake backing plate doesn't touch the rest of the bearing. You can bolt up the bearings, shims and retainers without all the brake parts, gaskets and outer grease retainers and protectors when you're checking for axle shaft end play. Note: the two axle shafts touch each other end-to-end in the differential, and the end play spec of 0.005"-0.007" is for the entire axle assembly, not each shaft independently. If you have removed both axle shafts and are reassembling them, you cannot check end play by assembling only one shaft because there is nothing to stop it from going in too far (since the other axle isn't in yet). This isn't mentioned at all in the military manuals. If you kept track of what shims you removed from each side, you can use that as a starting point and add or subtract to get the correct play. You may find that one side had some nice round number, like 0.060" or 0.090", of shims, and the fine tuning is all done on the other side with a couple of 0.030" shims and some thinner ones, which makes perfect sense: roughly center and final adjustment done with second and final shaft/bearing/shims assembly. In my case, the only new parts in the tolerance stack-up were the bearings, and using all the original shims gave the perfect end play. Anybody need an unopened set of new shims?
Jim